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03 November 2007

A New Ballgame in Dating

It was observed that more and more modern or yuppie women are non-committal when it comes to long-term relationship. Work or career has become predominantly the focus of their attentions, energy, and time; while commitment to a relationship takes a back seat. This was not the case almost two decades ago, where the men are the non-committal species. Why is this? Why the shift? I don’t have the answers but this sure deserves pondering.

Women today stand on equal footing. Gone are the traditional or cultural typecast where they are always subject to the domain of men. Not to mention, the servitude impose on them on some remote cultures and society. They are on equal footing with us, meaning, they can match us in any way: career, tasks like soldiering, relationship, including fatherhood. Yeah! You heard it right. Single mothers are sometimes better at the role of fatherhood. Now, that’s another good topic to post, please remind me later.

Given the scenario above, dating has an entirely new ball game. You have to know how to be a good player. Now, you need to get back on the basics of courtship, if not, review the manual on how to seduce a woman. We used to hear that women seduce men –put that on the garbage bin. If you want a serious relationship, now is the time to learn how to seduce a woman. Remember, they are now of equal bearing with us. How do you do that? Where to start? Learn from the pro. Here, a click away.

On another note, if you are now in a relationship. It pays that you master the art of listening. Women love being paid attention to, being understood, and being cared for. Foremost, IMO, is being understood. You have to know how to read between the lines and understand body language. Women are expert on these mediums. Their deepest desires, longings and messages are encrypted in what they do not express in words –the body language. They do not tell you how important you are or how interesting you are in words or in letters. They will try to imply in the manner they speak, the manner they look at you, the manner they care for you. Fail to recognize those –you suck. They are always assuming that you understood what they meant even without the spoken words.

It is a new ball game in dating. Are you up for it? If not, try to learn more and be equipped. Receive your free email tips here.

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