Dan Bacon succinctly summed it:
There you go. Care to add guys? Or ladies, perhaps you want to refute any of those?
“The first thing you need to know about how to attract women is that: It is something that you can learn.”Everything can be learned, that is if one is willing to learn. Having laid that premise let me offer 4 practical killer tips in attracting women and keeping them attracted. Dan gave 3 already; I will add 4 from an Asian perspective:
- Be yourself. (1) Be natural. In Dan’s word, do not try to impress her. Do not pretend to be someone else. (2) Do not lie or exaggerated. Asian women (I think it is also true for the rest regardless of race or gender) hate lies and many of them can be unforgiving on this (forgive me ladies for saying that). Sometimes, in our desire to be accepted, we lie about some things about us that we thought we can confess later and be forgiven. It is a wrong assumption brother. (3) Be truthful and honest at the outset, she will love you for that.
- Look good. (1) Good grooming is imperative. If packaging differentiates a product from the rest, and so is, your grooming will differentiate you from the rest of the guys. (2) Wear the appropriate (always neat) clothes in situations that call for it. You do not have to be fancy, nor do you have to wear expensive signature brands. You can look good if you wear set clothes that suit you. Ask somebody to assess you in this department. (3) Oh, lest I forget, make sure that you smell good. Women love men who smells good, make that as the label of your packaging.
- Feel good. Be confident but not cocky. Feeling good has something to do with your zest for life and having a positive disposition in all things. By the way, if you feel good, that is contagious. In addition, if you made her feel good too because of that, you are closer to the home base more than you know dude.
- Show interest. (1) Pay her an honest compliment. Compliment her shoes, her, or anything that might be important to her. Remember, there are many things that we consider non-sense or too trivial and yet are so important to them. (2) Pay attention to her when she is talking. She loves to have all your attention focused on her. Stop ogling the long-legged woman on the side. Asian women love to be pursued and demand faithfulness to the letter. Although this is already the tech age of the 21st century, many among them are still conservative when it comes to dating or courtship. Bear that in mind will ya. (3) Moreover, show interest but do not attempt to be aggressive and assuming.
There you go. Care to add guys? Or ladies, perhaps you want to refute any of those?




2 comments:
mr perez,
i LOVE these killer tips! i love the bit about Asian women hating lies and exaggerations - it is so true. great tips and they give me a better perspective on the topic, which is also the niche for my website. fantastic post and keep it up !
thanks. ^^,
you should have left your blog-url so that I can visit it.
cheers!
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