Dating For Yuppie Men Only

Yeah, you read the title right. I am not being discriminatory here but it pays if you read this post too.

Dating has become a game or favorite past time for most us (see the ‘us’ –I am very much included, I must confess). What can I say? We are yuppies! We are young educated city-dwelling professionals who are always on the move. We hate settling down. We love the freedom and the thrill of jumping from one relationship to another. We fidget when the relationship starts to plateau, and we start wandering around to shop for the next date. This should not be the case. Ladies forgive us.

The subject of dating and marriage frequents, if not dominates, nearly every conversation in a bar or during lunch break in the office. And what is appalling, more and more yuppie women perceive that there is a scarcity of good, quality men available to date. Is this true? I would usually joke about that there are at least 5 potential dates for women, but more likely the 3 are married and the rest are interested. Yeah, I digressed there. Going back, the issue really is good, quality yuppie men to date. Hear them out will ya.

Modern men dating habits and practices have caused some women to shy away from dating. Why? Because of our tendency to rush on a lot of things, especially on the ‘bed’ part. We fail to exercise courteousness, ‘knighthood’ or gentleman’s conduct, and patience. We fail to give or deliver what women want. We are always on the pursuit our own agenda rather than paying attention to what they want. You don’t have to have the special ability to hear women thoughts like Mel Gibson in his movie, “What women want,” in order to deliver what they expected. Just be sensitive. Compliment her shoes or her new hairdo. Pay attention to everything that she says. These may sound too trivial for us, not to them dude. Try it –it works.

Another major issue in the yuppie men dating scene is how to attract ladies and keep them interested. In the dating web site www.TheModernMan.com, Dan Bacon proffers 3 things on this dilemma (Read his full article here entitled: How to attract women and keep them interested):

1. Don’t try to impress women;
2. Develop the key personality traits and behaviors that naturally attract women,
3. Become a more interesting person.

Exactly. Trust me, those 3 simple things can make a huge difference. So the next time you go on a date, bear those things in mind.

Adding to what has been said, take a few lessons from your past dating experiences also, in order to determine what works best for you; while taking into account your personal beliefs and values about dating, courtship, love and marriage. If you need more advises or tips on dating or want to learn a few effective tactical approaches to a memorable dating, here’s a good dating site to explore.

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